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	<title>Comments on: TIME TO BE ASHAMED by Bani Kaur</title>
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		<title>By: Surjit Singh</title>
		<link>https://amolak.in/web/time-to-be-ashamed-by-tavleen/#comment-48930</link>
		<dc:creator>Surjit Singh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2014 13:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bani,
I browsed through your website. And, indeed, I was happy to see what I saw and read.
In my opinion, you should insert some pictures to embellish the text.
Also, you may like to link your website with mine. It will increase the reach. There is a very sensitive writer in you. Nourish it, and do not let it wither.
Love. 
Surjit Chacha]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bani,<br />
I browsed through your website. And, indeed, I was happy to see what I saw and read.<br />
In my opinion, you should insert some pictures to embellish the text.<br />
Also, you may like to link your website with mine. It will increase the reach. There is a very sensitive writer in you. Nourish it, and do not let it wither.<br />
Love.<br />
Surjit Chacha</p>
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		<title>By: Bani</title>
		<link>https://amolak.in/web/time-to-be-ashamed-by-tavleen/#comment-48888</link>
		<dc:creator>Bani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2014 11:55:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The original piece is also hosted at my blog : http://banikaur.wordpress.com/grave-mistakes-injustices-in-society/ 

Do visit :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The original piece is also hosted at my blog : <a href="http://banikaur.wordpress.com/grave-mistakes-injustices-in-society/" rel="nofollow">http://banikaur.wordpress.com/grave-mistakes-injustices-in-society/</a> </p>
<p>Do visit <img src='https://amolak.in/web/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Surjit Singh</title>
		<link>https://amolak.in/web/time-to-be-ashamed-by-tavleen/#comment-46575</link>
		<dc:creator>Surjit Singh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2014 06:46:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Bani,
It seems there was a mix up. The error has been corrected. I am sanguine that you will not take it amiss.
I shall be hosting your next poem as soon as I receive some pictures to embellish the words.
Love to all four of you.
Surjit]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Bani,<br />
It seems there was a mix up. The error has been corrected. I am sanguine that you will not take it amiss.<br />
I shall be hosting your next poem as soon as I receive some pictures to embellish the words.<br />
Love to all four of you.<br />
Surjit</p>
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		<title>By: Bani</title>
		<link>https://amolak.in/web/time-to-be-ashamed-by-tavleen/#comment-45953</link>
		<dc:creator>Bani</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2014 16:40:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There seems to have been some misunderstanding regarding the author of this article.
This article has been written by me, word for word. 
I would like to have this corrected immediately.
Thank you everybody for your appreciation and input. It is highly valued.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There seems to have been some misunderstanding regarding the author of this article.<br />
This article has been written by me, word for word.<br />
I would like to have this corrected immediately.<br />
Thank you everybody for your appreciation and input. It is highly valued.</p>
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		<title>By: Surinder</title>
		<link>https://amolak.in/web/time-to-be-ashamed-by-tavleen/#comment-9070</link>
		<dc:creator>Surinder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jul 2013 11:55:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tavleen has been able to express her case very forcefully. There is a need for an attitudinal change in the society, specially in the North India. Men are far better behaved in the East. In Kolkata, for example, they were respectful towards ladies even at the peak of the Naxal militancy. In Mumbai, women travel in public transport without any reservation. 
Things are changing, but the pace is very slow.
Surinder]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tavleen has been able to express her case very forcefully. There is a need for an attitudinal change in the society, specially in the North India. Men are far better behaved in the East. In Kolkata, for example, they were respectful towards ladies even at the peak of the Naxal militancy. In Mumbai, women travel in public transport without any reservation.<br />
Things are changing, but the pace is very slow.<br />
Surinder</p>
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		<title>By: surjit singh</title>
		<link>https://amolak.in/web/time-to-be-ashamed-by-tavleen/#comment-8916</link>
		<dc:creator>surjit singh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jul 2013 04:51:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lakshmi,
Thanks. I am sure Tavleen is seeing all that has been said about her work. I am waiting for Nithys&#039;s tests to et over quickly. I see a talented writer in her, waiting to be discovered by the &#039;Guftagu&#039; community!
Surjit]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lakshmi,<br />
Thanks. I am sure Tavleen is seeing all that has been said about her work. I am waiting for Nithys&#8217;s tests to et over quickly. I see a talented writer in her, waiting to be discovered by the &#8216;Guftagu&#8217; community!<br />
Surjit</p>
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		<title>By: surjit singh</title>
		<link>https://amolak.in/web/time-to-be-ashamed-by-tavleen/#comment-8903</link>
		<dc:creator>surjit singh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jul 2013 12:32:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Gul,
That other countries are bad or even worse, is no consolation. We need to set our own house in order!
Surjit]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Gul,<br />
That other countries are bad or even worse, is no consolation. We need to set our own house in order!<br />
Surjit</p>
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		<title>By: surjit singh</title>
		<link>https://amolak.in/web/time-to-be-ashamed-by-tavleen/#comment-8902</link>
		<dc:creator>surjit singh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jul 2013 12:29:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sir,
You are very kind with your words. I am forever reminded of the days we spent together in the South Block.
Wish you and Mrs Pillai good health and happiness.
Surjit]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sir,<br />
You are very kind with your words. I am forever reminded of the days we spent together in the South Block.<br />
Wish you and Mrs Pillai good health and happiness.<br />
Surjit</p>
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		<title>By: surjit singh</title>
		<link>https://amolak.in/web/time-to-be-ashamed-by-tavleen/#comment-8901</link>
		<dc:creator>surjit singh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jul 2013 12:26:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sir,
You are able to say so much in so few words!
Why don&#039;t you write for this blog?
Surjit]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sir,<br />
You are able to say so much in so few words!<br />
Why don&#8217;t you write for this blog?<br />
Surjit</p>
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		<title>By: Ranjeet Singh</title>
		<link>https://amolak.in/web/time-to-be-ashamed-by-tavleen/#comment-8894</link>
		<dc:creator>Ranjeet Singh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jul 2013 09:49:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sirs and Madams,
Have gone through the comments and was touched by the fact that some one thought like me with regard to this whole question of ATTITUDE.
At the deepest level it is psychological.MAN is overawed by the mystical power of Woman as the giver of life.
Rather than respecting her,he finds it easier to belittle her by objectifying her and degrading her into an object of profanity.
Even then he finds that he may possess her body but her essence of womanhood escapes his grasp.
So you have an urge to seek gratification of lust rather than finding LOVE something far more precious and lasting.
All of must therefore, examine our own attitudes towards gender based relationships.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sirs and Madams,<br />
Have gone through the comments and was touched by the fact that some one thought like me with regard to this whole question of ATTITUDE.<br />
At the deepest level it is psychological.MAN is overawed by the mystical power of Woman as the giver of life.<br />
Rather than respecting her,he finds it easier to belittle her by objectifying her and degrading her into an object of profanity.<br />
Even then he finds that he may possess her body but her essence of womanhood escapes his grasp.<br />
So you have an urge to seek gratification of lust rather than finding LOVE something far more precious and lasting.<br />
All of must therefore, examine our own attitudes towards gender based relationships.</p>
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